Yes! No! Maybe? — The Interactive List
Yes! No! Maybe?
The list. Made to help you express your needs, boundaries, curiosities, and desires. All the ways to have Smart Sex.
Tap your answers below — they save automatically on your device. Then text the list to your partner: they fill out their own, and when they’re done, you’ll both see exactly where you match.
Check Yes!
If it’s something you’re interested in exploring. And if it’s a yes, it should be a HELL YES.
Check No!
If it’s something you’re not interested in exploring. And that’s OK! Don’t feel pressure to do anything you’re not comfortable with. Full stop.
Check Maybe?
If it’s not a HELL YES or a HELL NO. There’s a lot of magic in the maybes — see where the conversation takes you.
You + Your Partner
Both Yes!
Both Maybe
Both No
Different Answers
All done? Compare your lists!
Both a Yes
How exciting! Now you have new ways to play in (or out) of the bedroom.
Both a No
It’s interesting to note and good to know what your no’s are. Onto the next one!
Both a Maybe
Have a conversation about your reservations and follow the three T’s of healthy communication using the Sex With Emily Communication Guide.
Different Answers?
Get curious, not mad! Ask: “Tell me more about why this is a no?” This isn’t a chance to change your partner’s mind — it’s a chance to learn about each other.
Hot Tips
- Make a date out of it! Find a quiet, calming space, be thoughtful about your answers, and reserve enough time to discuss your results.
- Fill this list out together and discuss as you go, or fill it out separately and compare when you’re done.
- Review your answers and circle your top three favorites you already love and want more of. Star three new things you can’t wait to try!
- Don’t know what a term means? Head to the Sex With Emily Explore + Play page or search the podcast.
- Don’t forget to subscribe to the #1 podcast Sex With Emily wherever you get your podcasts.
Remember, communication is lubrication. XX, Emily