Yes! No! Maybe?

The list. Made to help you express your needs, boundaries, curiosities, and desires. All the ways to have Smart Sex.

Tap your answers below — they save automatically on your device. Then text the list to your partner: they fill out their own, and when they’re done, you’ll both see exactly where you match.

Your partner sent you their list! Tap your own answers below, then scroll down — your side-by-side comparison builds automatically.

Check Yes!

If it’s something you’re interested in exploring. And if it’s a yes, it should be a HELL YES.

Check No!

If it’s something you’re not interested in exploring. And that’s OK! Don’t feel pressure to do anything you’re not comfortable with. Full stop.

Check Maybe?

If it’s not a HELL YES or a HELL NO. There’s a lot of magic in the maybes — see where the conversation takes you.

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Both Yes!

    Both Maybe

      Both No

        Different Answers

          All done? Compare your lists!

          Both a Yes

          How exciting! Now you have new ways to play in (or out) of the bedroom.

          Both a No

          It’s interesting to note and good to know what your no’s are. Onto the next one!

          Both a Maybe

          Have a conversation about your reservations and follow the three T’s of healthy communication using the Sex With Emily Communication Guide.

          Different Answers?

          Get curious, not mad! Ask: “Tell me more about why this is a no?” This isn’t a chance to change your partner’s mind — it’s a chance to learn about each other.