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The Sex with Emily Mattress by Essentia in a warm bedroom A couple relaxing on the Sex with Emily Mattress by Essentia The Sex with Emily Mattress by Essentia, side view

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The Sex with Emily Mattress by Essentia

Better sleep and better sex, in one bed.

50% offJoin the Better Sex Sleep StudyGet this mattress at half price, plus a next-gen Oura Ring and a 1-year Oura membership. 75 spots.

$4,999

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  • Leverage where you need it
  • Completely silent: no springs, no creaks
  • Certified organic, inside and out
  • Active Cooling for two
Emily Morse

From Emily

Foam mattresses are great for sleep, but sex on them can feel like work. You sink in, lose your footing, and end up fighting the bed. So I partnered with Jack Dell’Accio and the Essentia team to change that. I tested the prototype every way I could think of, and the result gives you leverage where you need it, stays completely silent, and still lets you melt into it when you’re done.

— Emily

What it feels like.

  • Leverage where you need it.The center zone gives just enough: the partner underneath can control their own positioning, while the partner on top gets solid leverage without fighting the mattress.
  • Comfort that moves with you.The dome-shaped surface relieves pressure and distributes weight evenly, whether you’re on your back, side, or stomach.
  • Completely silent.No springs, no creaks, no squeaks, however you move.
  • Connected, not disrupted.Many mattresses are built to cut you off from your partner. This one keeps a subtle, steady response between both sides, so you stay in tune with each other without the bounce.
  • A soft place to land.Once the exertion is done, sink into the plush center to relax, recharge, and cuddle.
  • Cooler nights for two.Active Cooling helps you both stay comfortable through the night.
“I prefer feeling my partner move as part of the experience. It’s not jarring or bouncy, it’s just present.”
Emily Morse

Not your typical foam mattress

Pressure relief that moves with you.

Essentia is unlike any traditional foam mattress. Its patented Beyond Latex® organic foam relieves pressure like memory foam, but responds as you move instead of trapping you in a slow sink. It’s made from certified organic materials, non-toxic and free of chemical flame retardants, and it’s far denser than typical foam, so it keeps its shape and support over time.

What’s inside

  • Dome-surfaced Beyond Latex® organic foamExclusive
    A dome-shaped comfort surface for improved comfort and pressure redistribution. Exclusive to this mattress.
  • Responsive transition layerExclusive
    Increased elasticity centered in the core and hip area, for a more responsive, lively feel that reacts quickly when you change positions. Designed to make sex on a foam mattress easier and more comfortable. Exclusive to this mattress.
  • Active Cooling
    Activated quartz in the foam draws heat away from your body, keeping you up to 5 degrees cooler than body temperature over an 8-hour sleep cycle.
  • Essentia EMF Protection™
    An informed quartz formula built into the foam itself, supporting more natural blood flow and oxygen circulation while you sleep.
  • Certified organic, inside and out
    GOLS (Global Organic Latex Standard) certified organic foams and a GOTS (Global Organic Textile Standard) certified organic removable cover.
  • Allergen free
    No wool or cotton batting or quilting, and no springs. Essentia’s patented Beyond Latex® organic foam is impervious to dust mites.

Good questions.

Who designed the mattress?
Jack Dell’Accio and the Essentia team, together with Emily Morse, who tested the prototypes and shaped how it feels, responds, and moves.
Is the cover removable and washable?
Yes. The organic cotton cover is removable. Wash it in cold water and dry on a low setting, since organic cotton shrinks with heat.
Do I need to flip the mattress?
No. You sleep on the top, dome-shaped surface only.
Will it get firmer in cold weather?
No. The mattress keeps the same feel whatever the temperature.

About the Better Sex Sleep Study

What is the Better Sex Sleep Study?
A study from Emily and Essentia for a small group from our community, exploring how better sleep affects your sleep quality, energy, and connection. You’ll track your sleep with an Oura Ring for 10 weeks on your current mattress and 10 weeks on the Sex with Emily Mattress by Essentia.
Who’s running it?
Emily Morse and Jack Dell’Accio, Certified Sleep Coach and founder of Essentia.
What does it cost, and what’s included?
Participants receive 50% off MSRP. Your price includes the Sex with Emily Mattress by Essentia, an Oura Ring Gen 5, a 1-year Oura membership, and Emily’s coaching: three live webinars, texts you can reply to, and unlimited Emily AI.
Can my partner join?
Yes, at no extra cost, with their own Oura Ring, membership and Emily’s coaching.
Can I join if I’m single?
Yes. Solo participation is welcome and encouraged.
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