What Nobody Taught You About Vaginas

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Sexual communication isn’t a sign that something is wrong—it’s how sex gets better. When your partner says “slow down,” “stay right there,” or asks for something different, they aren’t rejecting you. They’re giving you the roadmap to what feels good for them right now.

In this episode, I’m talking about how to create the safety to give and receive direction during sex without anyone getting defensive, embarrassed, or shutting down. We’ll explore why learning basic anatomy is only the beginning, how bodies and desires change over time, and why staying curious is the real secret to being a great lover.

If you want more connected, responsive, and satisfying sex, this episode is for you.

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Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters

• 0:00 – The difference between your vagina and your vulva
• 1:03 – Learning your anatomy: the vulva, clitoris, and pelvic floor
• 2:06 – Why penetration isn't the "headliner" and foreplay isn't optional
• 3:51 – Why you should actually look at your own vulva
• 5:36 – Stop assuming: every body responds differently
• 7:42 – Busting the biggest myths about clitoral stimulation, lube, and size
• 9:26 – Read the signals: the "starting gun" myth about arousal timing
• 12:14 – Getting out of your head: presence, fantasy, and vibrators
• 15:02 – When to see a doctor: pain and other warning signs
• 15:23 – Keep talking: turning sex into an ongoing conversation