Emily's Ultimate Guide to Lubes

Use silicone lube for long-lasting sex or waterproof sex.
Interestingly enough, silicone lube does better in wet environments than water-based lube!

Water-based lubes are toy-safe.
Silicone lubes can degrade silicone toys. If bringing a toy into the mix, opt for water-based or oil-based lube.

Oil-based lubes play nice with silicone.
Oil-based lubes work well with silicone toys, but avoid them when there are condoms involved.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Which are okay for penetration?
Which are okay for penetration?
All lubes are suitable and intended for penetration. The only exceptions would be for those who have allergies, so double-check ingredients.
What is good for sensitive skin? Is there a fragrance free option?
What is good for sensitive skin? Is there a fragrance free option?
Something more fragrance free, and water based- if you have no preexisting sensitivities.



Hi, I'm Emily Morse
As a Doctor of Human Sexuality and host of the #1 sexuality podcast, Sex With Emily, I talk about sex a lot. I mean,a lot. And that’s a really good thing.
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