Vendor: Crystal
Heart of Glass Wand
Repeat after me.. I heart my G-Spot.
Vendor: Aneros
Aneros Mgx Syn Trident Prostate Massager
A beginner-friendly, velvet-touch prostate massager.
Vendor: Aneros
Aneros Helix Syn Trident Prostate Massager
Hit the spot.. The P-Spot, that is.
Vendor: Le Wand
Le Wand Stainless Steel Hoop
Sleek pleasure for the G-spot and the P-spot.
Vendor: Firefly
Firefly Glass Dildo
Glow in the dark.
Vendor: Tantus
Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit
Pegging for newbies.
Vendor: Le Wand
Le Wand Crystal Wand
High frequency pleasure.
Vendor: Tantus
Tantus Charmer Dildo
Hit the spot.
Vendor: Tantus
Tantus Curve Strap-On & Harness Kit
Strap in, get off.
Emily's Ultimate Guide to Dildos
Insert mindfully.
Apply plenty of lube to the toy and to your body before you insert your dildo. Things will feel more comfortable and pleasurable that way. r
Try penetrating while you masturbate externally.
Get creative! If you’ve got a vulva, stimulate your clitoris while you have a dildo inside. You’ll wake up a ton of pleasurable nerve endings with this combo.
One size does not fit all.
Sometimes “girthy” dildos feel great, while other times you may prefer something more modest. It can take a few tries before you find the width that truly works for you.
Frequently Asked Questions
Got questions? You're not alone. Understanding sex and sex toys can be tricky, and asking isn’t always easy. We've compiled expert answers to help you navigate those tough, often unspoken questions. Explore and learn!
Which material is best for me? Glass, silicone, crystal?
Which material is best for me? Glass, silicone, crystal?
Many people prefer the “harder” surface feel of glass, crystal, and stainless steel. These also conduct heat and cold, making them a nice choice for temperature play.
Meanwhile, many people like the flexibility of silicone. Some silicone dildos feature ridges and raised textures. Silicone does not conduct heat or cold. For an extremely small portion of the population, silicone allergies rule out silicone dildos.
Should I wait to use the larger sizes until I have worked my way there?
Should I wait to use the larger sizes until I have worked my way there?
Yes! For any insertion toy, whether it’s vaginal insertion or anal insertion, start at a modest size and work your way up. This helps prevent microtears and fissures.
Hi, I'm Emily Morse
As a Doctor of Human Sexuality and host of the #1 sexuality podcast, Sex With Emily, I talk about sex a lot. I mean,a lot. And that’s a really good thing.
In my 18 years of exploring the secrets to better sex, I’ve learned that communication is lubrication, and the sex life of your loftiest fantasies comes down to having more conversations — with your partner and, most importantly, yourself. So how about a little inspiration?
