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Let's talk about why you don't want sex with your husband anymore… and why the answer probably has nothing to do with your libido. If you've been lying next to him quietly hoping he doesn't reach for you, and then hating yourself for feeling that way, this episode is going to change the way you see what's actually happening in your body and your relationship. Because the story most women tell themselves at this moment is the wrong one entirely. I'm walking you through a four part desire check in that will help you stop asking the question that keeps you stuck and start asking the one that can actually lead you somewhere.
If desire has gone quiet in your marriage, this one is for you.
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Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters
- 00:00 You Are Not Broken
- 01:01 The Four Part Desire Check In
- 01:30 Step 1: Is Your Body Pulling Away From Everyone or Just Him
- 02:28 What the Pattern Is Actually Telling You
- 03:05 Step 2: What Is Your Body Protecting You From
- 03:20 Emotional Safety and Unresolved Conflict
- 04:16 Burnout and the Mental Load
- 05:05 Unresolved Hurt and Resentment
- 06:53 Step 3: Rule Out Physical and Mental Health Factors
- 07:13 Hormones, Medications, and Your Nervous System
- 07:55 Step 4: Rebuild Safety Before You Rebuild Desire
- 08:16 Affection Without Expectation
- 09:39 The One Sentence to Start the Conversation
- 10:22 What Your Body Has Been Trying to Tell You
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