Your Ultimate Guide to Sexting
Your Ultimate Guide to Sexting
Tap any line to copy it. Then paste, send, and let the anticipation build.
Sexting is text messaging with a sexual flavor. It can be as PG as “you look hot today,” or as edgy as you both want it. Use it to flirt, build anticipation, schedule sex for later, or simply make each other feel good.
Have Good Sextiquette
Get consent
Don't send a random nude (or even a sexy emoji) without checking in first — they could be in a meeting, driving, or just busy.
Keep it private
Don't screenshot or share with others unless you have explicit permission. Keep sexy pics in a hidden folder; use an encrypted app if privacy is a concern.
Go slow
Just like sex itself, you want to build anticipation… so go five times slower than you probably want. Trust Emily on this.
Be responsive
Meet your sexting partner with mutual enthusiasm. Don't leave your sextee on read — if you have to step away, just say “BRB sexy xx.”
The Sext Library
Tap Copy to grab a line for your thread, or Text to open your messages with it ready to go.
The Emoji Cheat Sheet
Tap any row to copy the emoji only — the words in parentheses are just the translation, they stay here.
Up-Level Your Sexts
Specificity is king
The more details, the hotter the sext. Easy formula: body part + situation + desire. “You're hot” works, but “Your ass looked so hot in those jeans last night” works better.
Disappearing photos
Give them one shot to see your sexy pic — try WhatsApp, Telegram, Snapchat, or Instagram for an insta-hot moment.
Audio clips
If the vibe is right, a provocative voice memo lets them hear you in your pleasure. Heavy breathing, seductive voice, and a well-placed moan works every time.
Disclaimer: Sex With Emily encourages healthy sexual exploration between consenting adults. Key words are consenting and adults. Don't engage with minors, revenge porn, or non-consensual photo sharing. Please sext responsibly.
XX, Emily