• better sleep, due to heightened serotonin
• lowered stress levels, due to heightened oxytocin
• elevated mood, due to heightened endorphins
• a stronger pelvic floor, due to the rhythmic contractions you experience during orgasm

Given all the upsides, here’s a question: how often do you masturbate?
In my view, a few times a week is a healthy target. No matter what sets of genitals you have, you can make masturbation more powerful and interesting, with varied sensation and contact, versatile features, and quality materials. The six toys here meet that criteria, and have earned a special place in our solo sex routines. Sex With Emily approved pleasure tools, if you will.

Best Clitoral Vibes 

1. Je Joue Mimi Soft Vibrator

Soft to the touch but powerful in intensity, this toy is a consistent crowd-pleaser for beginners and experienced players. This brand is known for deep rumbles rather than high frequency “buzzing.” Here’s why that’s important: research has shown these lower frequency vibes stimulate deeper nerve endings, massaging the pelvic floor’s muscle tissue for a more intense and powerful orgasmic release.

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Best Clitoral Suction

2. We-Vibe Melt Suction Vibrator

Some vulva owners don’t orgasm from vibration. Enter suction toys, an innovative technology that stimulates the clitoris through contact-free waves of air pressure, simulating the best oral sex of your life. This toy fits in the palm of your hand, and comfortably encloses your clitoris with a stimulator head.

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Best Dual Stimulator for Vulva Owners

4. LELO Enigma

For anyone who wants to feel what it’s like to have oral sex and penetration at the same time, this is it. One end applies sonic waves to your clitoris, while the internal G-spot massager pulses against the G-spot. It’s a substantial toy too, with enough heft in the massager arm to create a satisfying feeling of fullness.

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Best G-Spot Stimulator

4. We-Vibe Rave G-Spot Vibrator

G-spot masturbation can be confusing, we know. What we love about this one is its simplicity, with a tip that’s curved just right. After your first clitoral orgasm, mindfully insert this toy and angle the tip towards your G-spot, located about two inches inside on your front vaginal wall. Enjoy internal orgasms galore. 

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Best Stroker for Penis Owners

5. Arcwave Ion Premium Air Stroker

It’s a new day for penis owners and sex toys. This toy uses targeted, pulsating airwaves on your shaft to bring you effortlessly to orgasm. But here’s why it’s more exciting than hands-only masturbation: its airwaves hit your frenulum, a small piece of tissue on the underside of the penis with tons of sensitive nerve endings. Neither your hand, nor the best oral sex, can stimulate it as well as this toy. It’s also a snap to clean. 

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Best Prostate Massager

6. LELO Loki Wave Prostate Massager Vibrator

If you’ve never had a prostate orgasm before, get ready for fireworks. This toy stimulates the prostate gland with a tapered top, while the smaller arm targets the perineum: the nerve-rich area between penis and anus. And the coolest part? You don’t even have to be erect to experience a prostate orgasm. Just use abundant lube, mindfully insert, and enjoy your exploration. 

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