Vendor: Tantus
Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit
Pegging for newbies.
Vendor: Tantus
Tantus Curve Strap-On & Harness Kit
Strap in, get off.
Emily's Ultimate Guide to Strap-Ons
If you’re the wearer, go for a snug fit.
Try walking around with your strap-on, at home. You want to make sure it doesn’t chafe when you move.
If you’re the receiver, use a lot of lube.
Whether you’re being penetrated vaginally or anally, things will feel much more pleasurable with lube in the mix.
Use lots of communication.
When using a strap-on for vaginal sex or pegging, honest feedback is crucial. Talk to each other about what pressure or rhythm feels good, and what needs tweaking.
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