Emily's Ultimate Guide to Vibrators & Sex Toys
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Always use lube.
Whether your toy offers external or internal stimulation, lube increases your pleasure and heightens your chance of orgasm.
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Experiment with speeds + vibration patterns.
If your toy offers different speeds/patterns, try out several. Even if you have a fave setting, it’s exciting to switch things up and explore different stimulation options.
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Try edging.
Work your way up to the point you’re just about to orgasm, then intentionally back off. Then work your way up again, as many times as you like. The resulting orgasm will be more intense.
Frequently Asked Questions
Got questions? You're not alone. Understanding sex and sex toys can be tricky, and asking isn’t always easy. We've compiled expert answers to help you navigate those tough, often unspoken questions. Explore and learn!
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What's an affordable vibrator you’d recommend?
What's an affordable vibrator you’d recommend?
Our most affordable battery-powered vibrator is the Iroha Zen.
Our most affordable rechargeable vibrator is the Womaness Gold Vibes.
Which are the most quiet? Strongest? Most suitable for those who want something delicate?
Which are the most quiet? Strongest? Most suitable for those who want something delicate?
One of our most quiet vibrators is the We-Vibe Moxie, a panty vibe that packs a punch.
Dame Pom Handheld Vibe is whisper-quiet.
While most of our vibrators are pretty powerful, the one with the most strength settings is the Womanizer Premium 2, with 14 settings.
The Iroha Zen that is perfect for more delicate vibrations.
What’s the difference between the sizes of Magic Wands? Are they good for me too?
What’s the difference between the sizes of Magic Wands? Are they good for me too?
Magic Wand Original: 12” in length
Magic Wand Rechargeable: 13” in length
Magic Wand Plus: 13” in length
Magic Wand Mini: 9.6” in length
Magic Wand Micro: 4.5” in length
Please note: there’s no difference between the strengths of the wands, even the Magic Wand Mini packs the same punch as the original! The only difference lies in their sizes, price points, and cord vs. recharge power.
And yes! If you’ve got a penis, just place the vibrating head between the penis and testicles, or the testicles and anus, to stimulate orgasm-inducing nerve endings.
My toy stopped charging, how do I reset it?
My toy stopped charging, how do I reset it?
Reach out to support@sexwithemily.com to get info on how to reset your toy or for information on warranty.
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Hi, I'm Emily Morse
As a Doctor of Human Sexuality and host of the #1 sexuality podcast, Sex With Emily, I talk about sex a lot. I mean,a lot. And that’s a really good thing.
In my 18 years of exploring the secrets to better sex, I’ve learned that communication is lubrication, and the sex life of your loftiest fantasies comes down to having more conversations — with your partner and, most importantly, yourself. So how about a little inspiration?
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