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In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I’m diving into the truth about fantasies… why we have them, why so many of us are afraid to share them, and how to talk about them with a partner without pressure or shame. I break down what fantasies actually are (and what they’re not), why silence in relationships often comes from self-protection rather than secrecy, and how to create space for honest, judgment-free conversations about sex. I also take live questions from a caller who’s navigating dating transparency, emotional boundaries, and how to communicate clearly without rushing intimacy. This episode originally aired as a live stream, and I’m so excited to bring it to you as a podcast- real talk, real questions, and practical tools to help you feel more connected, confident, and open in your sex life.
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Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters
- 00:00 Fantasies Are Not What You Think
- 01:16 How To Talk About Fantasies Without Pressure
- 02:45 Creating A No Judgment Space
- 04:33 What A Fantasy Actually Is
- 05:54 The Fear Of Talking About Sex
- 07:05 Why We Stay Quiet About What We Want
- 08:09 Different Areas of Fantasies
- 10:23 What We’re Really Craving
- 11:20 How To Bring It Up Without Making It Awkward
- 12:38 Desire, Control, & Trying New Things
- 16:47 When Two People Are Moving At Different Speeds
- 18:10 Getting To Know Your Own Desire First
- 20:54 Caller: Dating Honestly Without Overthinking It
- 23:49 How To Ask “What Are We?” In A Natural Way
- 26:55 Being Honest Without Putting Pressure
- 29:47 Timing Sex & How to Know When It Feels Right How To Ask For What You Want in Bed: Fantasy Edition | Sex With Emily https://www.youtube.com/sexwithemily


